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Meeting Our Community’s Desire for Connection

Meeting Our Community’s Desire for Connection

Across every demographic, the desire for deeper Jewish life is clear. Let’s meet it—one invitation at a time.

I was reading through the results of our recent Impact Index Pulse Survey, a community-wide survey we helped launch earlier this year to better understand how people across our region are experiencing Jewish life—what’s working, what’s missing, and where we can lower barriers to connection. The survey asked 1,349 D.C.-area Jewish community members about their level of satisfaction with the Jewish community (54% satisfied, 15% unsatisfied, 31% neutral).

There is plenty to parse in the data, but one thing stood out to me: The key to increasing people’s engagement with Jewish life isn’t about creating desire but about creating opportunities and removing barriers standing in the way of greater participation.

The desire to become more involved in Jewish life cuts across denomination, age group, income level, region, synagogue affiliation, and length of residence. Roughly 50-60% of all demographic groups want more engagement. Even those whose engagement declined in the past year still reported wanting to be more involved in Jewish life. This is remarkable and instructive.

At Federation, we are proud to work closely with a network of partners who offer and facilitate meaningful Jewish experiences. But the work of building Jewish community rests not solely with institutions, but with each of us. Indeed, community is built from individual connections that help people feel seen and part of something. All of the grants and strategic approaches in the world will never replace the power of personal interactions.

Enter Shabbat dinner. Whether you gather with family members, close friends, or new acquaintances, coming together for Shabbat dinner is one of the most powerful ways to kindle and strengthen Jewish life. Many of us know this to be true from our own encounters with Shabbat, and it is also borne out in the data. Among those who sometimes or regularly attend or host Shabbat dinners there is a greater level of engagement with and satisfaction in Jewish life as compared to those who rarely or never attend Shabbat dinners.

I can hear the data folks reminding me that “correlation is not causation,” but when it comes to Shabbat dinner, there is no downside. It is a positive indicator and effective gateway to greater engagement. It also enriches our own Jewish lives. We’re fortunate to work with so many organizations and community members who help people find their way to one another, at Shabbat tables and in countless other moments of connection.

So, as the weather gets colder and we burrow inside, I want to encourage you to bring others along with you. Invite people over for Shabbat dinner. Welcome people you know and people you would like to get to know. Even if you’ve never hosted a Shabbat dinner before, give it a try. It does not need to be fancy or fit some image of what a Shabbat dinner is “supposed” to look like. There are many online resources standing by to provide you with tips and ideas. This is a resource guide from OneTable, one of our partner organizations, that helps those in their 20s and 30s host Shabbat dinners—but the information works for all ages.

The Impact Index clearly shows people want to be more engaged in Jewish life. The desire is there. We meet it by connecting with the people around us and basking together in Jewish ritual, joy, connection, and belonging.

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More Than One Way to Make a Difference 

More Than One Way to Make a Difference 

Each act of generosity adds to something beautiful we share.

There’s more than one way to slice an apple, bake a challah, or make someone’s day. And there’s definitely more than one way to make a difference.

Every gift to The Jewish Federation of Greater Washington helps someone feel more connected, supported, and seen—whether it’s a teen finding their place in Jewish life, a family getting help in a moment of crisis, or a community strengthened by safety and care.

Curious what your impact looks like?

Explore how your giving shapes Jewish life across Greater Washington:

  • Security: Protecting our community and preparing for whatever comes next.
  • Northern Virginia: Building connection and Jewish life across the region.
  • Teens & Young Adults: Empowering the next generation of Jewish leaders.
  • Camp & Education: Sparking lifelong Jewish learning and friendships.

This season, consider the difference you want to make, then choose the giving path that fits you best. Whether it’s online, through appreciated stock, your Donor Advised Fund, or a charitable IRA distribution, your generosity powers real impact across our region and beyond.

Because there’s no single way to build a strong, vibrant Jewish community. It takes all of us. 

Choose your way

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Training to Save a Life 

Training to Save a Life 

Inside a high-impact security training at Federation that’s powering readiness across Jewish Greater Washington

Last week, Federation staff rolled up our sleeves (literally) at STOP THE BLEED®, a hands-on emergency training that teaches you how to respond to life-threatening bleeding. We practiced using tourniquets, packing wounds, and applying pressure—skills we hope we’ll never need, but ones we’re grateful to have learned.

In a crisis, there’s no time to think. When tensions are high and lives are on the line, you fall back on your training. And you hope it’s training that sticks.

That’s where JShield comes in, turning preparation into practice, and making sure that training happens before the moment it’s needed.

JShield in Action

For our staff, this training was memorable, even intense. For JShield, it was any other Wednesday. These kinds of high-impact, real-world trainings are standard operating procedure for our community security initiative—proactive, practical, people-first.

JShield supports synagogues, schools, and Jewish organizations across Greater Washington with the tools they need to protect their people: security assessments, grant support, expert trainings, and real-world readiness. So far in 2025, that’s added up to nearly $600,000 in estimated support—from consultations and training to grant writing expertise and threat assessments—helping institutions across the DMV stay prepared and protected.

Because of You

This kind of training doesn’t happen by accident. It happens because of your support for Federation’s Annual Campaign.

And right now, your gift toward security goes even further, thanks to a limited-time Security Match from The Morningstar Foundation, which is matching 50¢ on the dollar, up to $1 million, to strengthen community safety across Greater Washington.

That means more trainings like this. More experts in more spaces. More peace of mind in a time when it’s never felt more urgent.

So far this year, JShield has helped local Jewish organizations secure more than $4.33 million in federal and state security funding. Your support helps unlock even more.

Prepared and Proud of It

There’s nothing flashy about learning to stop a bleed. It’s messy. It’s tense. It’s vital.

But it’s also hopeful. Because it means we’re not waiting to react—we’re ready to respond, thanks to JShield. Together, we’re building a community that leads with courage, care, and preparation.

Let’s keep going.

Help power the next life-saving training across Jewish Greater Washington.

Every gift is matched. Every action counts.

Donate now

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Jewish Talent Project: Building Better Workplaces, Together

Jewish Talent Project: Building Better Workplaces, Together

The Jewish Talent Project is underway, and the Leading Edge survey is the first step toward lasting change.

As Adam Levner shared when we introduced the Jewish Talent Project (JTP), the vision is bold: to make Greater Washington one of the best places in the country to work in Jewish communal life. Behind every meaningful connection or impactful program are professionals making it happen—and they deserve workplaces where they can thrive.

Since launching this fall, the Jewish Talent Project has begun building the tools and support Jewish organizations need to strengthen workplace culture, leadership, and staff retention across the region.

Now, JTP is rolling out The Leading Edge Employee Experience Survey.

This free, confidential survey offers Jewish organizations valuable insight into how staff experience their workplace—what’s working, where there’s room to grow, and how they compare to peers. It also opens the door to future JTP offerings and support.

Eligible organizations (3+ years old, 6+ employees) must register by December 12 to take part. Because when Jewish professionals thrive, the impact reaches every corner of our community.

Photo: leadingedge.org

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Bracing for the Storm with $150K in Community Support

Bracing for the Storm with 0K in Community Support

Thanks to your support, we're allocating $150,000 in emergency funding to help community members facing financial hardship during the federal shutdown.

Tracking the impact of the federal government shutdown is like watching a storm roll in.

It’s already drizzling. As SNAP benefits expire and federal workers miss their first paychecks, the forecast is likely to worsen.

For many in our community, what started as financial uncertainty is becoming a true crisis.

To help address the rising tide of need, we’re allocating $150,000 to assist those affected by the shutdown.

These grants are part of our ongoing commitment to respond quickly and compassionately to community crises.

In coordination with local partner organizations, including JSSA (who runs our J-CARING hotline), we’re monitoring needs in real time to ensure help reaches those who need it most.

We’ve long been at-the-ready to respond to the needs of our community—the last few years have made us experts. From the pandemic to national protests, the war in Ukraine to October 7 and its aftermath, and now this shutdown, we’ve learned how to act swiftly and strategically when the need is urgent.

Today, we’re proud to help meet immediate needs while strengthening our community’s network of care for the future.

This work is only possible because of the trust and generosity of donors who give to our Annual Campaign, ensuring our community can weather the hardest days and prepare for the brightest ones.

It’s raining out. If you can help keep those around us dry, please donate today.

If you or someone you know needs support, call the J-CARING hotline or visit our Crisis Response resources page.

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Building Belonging Through Care

Building Belonging Through Care

Building Belonging Through Care: Dr. Aiman Tohid and Makom’s New IDD Health Clinic

For Dr. Aiman Tohid, medicine is about more than just treatment—it’s about inclusion, empathy, and equity. As the Director of Makom’s new specialized health clinic for individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities (IDD), she is helping build something rare: a space designed from the ground up for people who too often face barriers to care.

“This is one of a kind,” Aiman says. “Only a handful of clinics like this exist in the entire United States, and too often, people with IDD are denied care because providers aren’t trained to meet their needs. We wanted to change that.”

From Karachi to California to Montgomery County

Aiman’s journey began in Pakistan, where she attended Dow Medical College, then moved to the United States to complete her board exams and a preventive medicine residency at the University of Southern California’s Keck School of Medicine. After years on the West Coast, she and her husband moved east during the COVID pandemic to be closer to family and new opportunities.

Soon after arriving, she came across Makom. “I saw an opening online,”[at1]  she recalls with a laugh. “It wasn’t even the right fit for my background, but I applied anyway because I really wanted to be part of the organization.” When Makom’s leadership reviewed her résumé, they quickly realized her expertise aligned perfectly with their vision for a new clinic.

Building a First-of-Its-Kind Clinic

After three years of planning, Makom’s clinic officially opened to the broader community this fall. The clinic provides physical, occupational, and speech therapy; nutritional counseling; and behavioral and mental-health services. Initially created to serve individuals in Makom’s residential programs, it now welcomes clients across Maryland and DC, with plans to expand into Virginia once licensing is complete.

The clinic also partners with leading institutions, including Johns Hopkins, Georgetown, George Washington University, and the University of Maryland School of Dentistry, giving medical and dental students hands-on experience with IDD patients. These partnerships are reshaping how health professionals think about care for people with IDD. “We want to create a new generation of providers who are confident and compassionate in serving this population,” Aiman explains. “That’s how lasting change happens.”

A Mission That’s Personal

Aiman’s interest in IDD medicine grew gradually but deeply. During her rotations in mental health, she found herself drawn to working with patients with developmental disabilities. “I’ve always been interested in mental health,” she says. “And having close friends and family with similar diagnoses made it personal. Once I began working with this community, I knew it was where I was meant to be.”

That personal commitment extends to education. She shares a story from a conference that still motivates her: “A board-certified neurologist asked me if adults with developmental disabilities even exist,” she recalls. “That was shocking. People think of autism or Down syndrome as only affecting children. We need more awareness and empathy. This clinic helps open those doors.”

Partnering for Greater Impact

Aiman credits The Jewish Federation of Greater Washington for playing a vital role in Makom’s growth. “The space Federation helped make possible gave us room to build a real clinic,” she says. “The partnership also helps us spread the word. Federation’s name and network give people confidence in the work we’re doing.”

Although Aiman is not Jewish, she says her time at Makom has deepened her understanding of Jewish life and traditions. “As a Muslim, a lot of it feels familiar—the values, the sense of community, even some dietary practices,” she says. “Over the past three years, I’ve learned so much and feel connected in a very natural way.”

Finding Home in the Capital Region

Now five years into East Coast life, Aiman says the DC area has grown on her quickly. She loves the changing seasons—especially fall—and the accessibility of nearby cities and family. “It’s such a diverse community,” she says. “It’s a great place to raise kids, with strong schools, good universities, and people from all backgrounds.”

At home, she and her husband are busy raising three children, ages 11 months, 6, and 7. “Our youngest is a Makom baby,” she laughs. “They threw me a baby shower at work.”

Beyond the White Coat

When she’s not seeing patients or mentoring students, Aiman enjoys quieter moments with tea or coffee and a good book—or watching documentaries, especially about health, history, or inspiring real-life stories. She’s a city person at heart, loves South Asian food (“the spicier, the better”), and never turns down a trip to Europe.

In classic East Coast style, she prefers apple cider over pumpkin spice and calls herself an early bird, thanks to her children. “They start jumping at 6 a.m.,” she jokes. As for desserts, she’s firmly team vanilla, and when it comes to bagels, she keeps it simple: “Just a plain one, with coffee. I’m more about the coffee than the bagel.”

Her favorite DC landmark? “The Washington Monument,” she says without hesitation. “It reminds me how tall we can stand when we build together.”

The Jewish Federation of Greater Washington is proud to support partners like Makom that expand access, equity, and belonging—ensuring that everyone in our community can thrive.

Learn more about Makom and its groundbreaking clinic for individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities at makomlife.org.

 

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Filling Our Communal Glass

Filling Our Communal Glass

At a Federation program earlier this week, Dr. Tal Becker from the Shalom Hartman Institute urged us not to ask if the glass is half full or half empty in this moment but rather how do we add water to the glass?  All of our participation counts, the way we choose to be involved in Jewish life helps fill the glass and increase our potential for strengthening our society and our community.

In this way, to give to Federation is to be part of a community-wide effort to strengthen and secure the Jewish future and fill our communal glass. It is also a way to make an urgent difference in the here and now. SNAP benefits expire tomorrow. The government shutdown continues. Thousands of workers are furloughed. Others are facing layoffs. Our friends, neighbors, and people across the region are going to need a helping hand. We can and must be there with arms extended.

We also know from decades of research and experience that meaningful Jewish experiences have lasting effects on someone’s life. Jewish learning opportunities, Shabbat dinners, sleepaway camp, youth groups, day schools, Israel trips, and so on help Jews of all ages explore and find the joy in what it means to be Jewish. To give to Federation is to support the creation of a vibrant Jewish community by enabling more people to experience meaningful Jewish experiences.

There are just two months left in the year—and $8 million still to raise in unrestricted funds to support our partner agencies and strengthen vibrant Jewish life across Greater Washington. Make your gift today to help us carry the momentum through the end of the year.

At a time when so much feels out of our control, a favorite quote from Jewish novelist Isaac Bashevis Singer comes to mind, “We must believe in free will. We’ve got no choice.” So much is up in the air, but we still get to decide how to move forward and be there for one another.

Stake your claim in what comes next by giving to Federation and investing in community. Help us fill our communal cup to the brim.

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Baby and Me Yoga

Baby and Me Yoga
Registration Opens October 27th Mondays @ 8:45 AM Dates: 11/17/25 – 1/26/26 Skip Dates: 12/22, 12/29, 1/19 Includes parent-baby postures and massage techniques designed to promote bonding with each other and bring a sense of calm to the baby.  Most enjoyed by parents who have babies under 9 months.

Talking Walls: Reflections on Connection, Art, and Homecoming 

Talking Walls: Reflections on Connection, Art, and Homecoming 

Nearly two months into my role as a Shlicha (Israeli emissary) of The Jewish Agency for Israel at The Jewish Federation of Greater Washington, I find myself asking the same question nearly every day: What is my mission here?

What does it truly mean to build a bridge between Israel and American Jewry?

Each day, I receive a different answer.

Creating “Talking Walls”

To mark two years since the October 7 massacre, I chose to curate an exhibition at the Federation offices showcasing powerful Israeli cartoons that reflect some of what we’ve experienced in Israel over the past two years.

Because sometimes, words just aren’t enough.

As I prepared the exhibition over the past two weeks, I kept hoping and praying that the final poster would be unnecessary. That it would be a waste of money.

Today, that wish came true.

The beautiful, foam-mounted poster—professionally printed and ready to hang—was covered this morning with a simple, printed A4 page:

“They’re coming home.” 

A Bridge Built of Art and Hope

This exhibition, Talking Walls: Israeli Caricatures Post October 7, brings together ten cartoons by Israeli artists—each capturing a moment, a feeling, or a truth from this complex time.

Originally shared on social media, these works move from virtual spaces into the physical world, offering an opportunity for our community to join the conversation. Together, they bridge two realms: the physical walls shattered on October 7, and the virtual walls built through online expression and solidarity.

Finding My Role

This is just the beginning. I’ll probably keep asking myself every day what my role here really is.

But I hope there will be more days like this—when the answer is clear, and for once, it comes with a big smile and a deep breath of fresh air.

This moment feels like an opportunity for all of us to pause, reflect on the last two years in Israel, and finally breathe a little easier as a bit of light begins to shine through.

It’s important for me, on this day, to remember all the people and heroes who made it possible to reach this moment. I honor and thank the soldiers and security forces who gave their lives, and everyone whose courage and determination helped make this day a reality.

We will not give up on any hostage and will continue to stand firm until every one of them returns home—to their families or to a dignified burial.

I hope this is the beginning of a greater change that will bring healing, recovery, and peace to Israel and the region.


Learn more about our community Shlichim and how they help build bridges between Israel and Greater Washington here.












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“The Most Important Zionist Act of Our Time”

“The Most Important Zionist Act of Our Time”

Reflections on hearing from Kibbutz Nir Oz leaders, and what’s possible when our communities connect

Kibbutz Nir Oz was little-known outside certain circles before October 7, including within our local Jewish community. Now its name is a reminder of both unimaginable loss and extraordinary resilience.

Earlier this month, I had the privilege of attending a powerful event at the Bender JCC featuring three remarkable individuals with deep, personal ties to Kibbutz Nir Oz:

  • Gadi Moses, the oldest living hostage to return from captivity, spoke about his experience of 482 days in captivity.
  • Nir Metzger, whose father was murdered in captivity and whose mother was taken hostage and later released, spoke about the idyllic life on the kibbutz and how it was shattered in an instant on October 7.
  • Emi Palmor, former Director General of Israel’s Ministry of Justice and now leading Nir Oz’s rehabilitation efforts, spoke about the challenging yet hopeful process of rebuilding the kibbutz, describing it as “the most important Zionist act of our time.”

Their stories were different, but the message was clear: after unbearable loss, the focus is on moving forward and rebuilding. The clearest example came with Gadi’s release from captivity, when his first message was simple and powerful: ‘I will do everything I can to rebuild Nir Oz.’ I left thinking not only about the horror of that day, but about the resilience it takes to rebuild trust, community, and a true sense of belonging from the ground up.

This conversation was part of Kesher Nir Oz, a grassroots partnership between members of our community and the survivors and leaders of Kibbutz Nir Oz, launched by lay leaders from Congregation Beth El, B’nai Israel, and Ohr Kodesh. It is heartwarming to see such busy people dedicate so much time and energy to sustaining this relationship.

Through Federation’s Local Israel Engagement work, we aim to help nurture such efforts alongside community leaders, recognizing just how powerful these people-to-people ties can be. These relationships don’t just show support—they help stitch our people back together. And that work is far from over.

We were honored to help bring a delegation from Nir Oz to visit our community last year, and now our conversations with Kesher Nir Oz continues. The potential is tremendous, and the need for healing, presence, and partnership is urgent.

If you know of (or are part of) a similar initiative between a DMV-area congregation or organization and a community or project in Israel, I’d love to hear from you. Email me at udi.eitan@www.shalomdc.org.

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