Month: December 2025

On their first Shabbat in DC earlier this fall, 13 young adults gathered in Rock Creek Park not just to meet each other, but to ground themselves in purpose. Under the trees, they sang Hashkiveinu together in a ritual led by Rabbi Gita Karasov, an alumna who once stood where they now sit.

That moment marked the start of a year that will challenge, stretch, and shape them as individuals and as leaders.

These 2025–26 Corps Members are part of Avodah, a Federation partner that places young Jewish changemakers in a year of immersive service. They live together in the DC bayit (house), explore Jewish pluralism in daily life, and serve at local nonprofits including Bread for the City, Jews United for Justice, and Higher Achievement.

Their orientation alone included a walking tour of U Street to learn about the legacy of Black Broadway and a deep dive into disability justice with Rabbi Lauren Tuchman. More than just training, it was a week of becoming rooted into community, justice, and Jewish values.

We believe Jewish leadership must reflect the urgency, diversity, and moral clarity this moment demands. Through your support, we’re helping these young adults lead with purpose, live their values, and build something bigger than themselves—right here in Greater Washington.

This is what happens when generosity meets action. Together, we’re shaping a Jewish future built on justice, belonging, and bold leadership.

In a time when conversations often feel like battlegrounds, The Jewish Federation of Greater Washington is charting a different course: creating space for humility, respect, and the quiet power of listening.

The Community Leadership Council (CLC)—a group of 100+ community builders from across Greater Washington—is at the heart of that shift. And now they’re launching a bold Listening Campaign. The goal? Not to agree on everything. But to understand each other more fully and build real trust, even when we don’t land in the same place.

Who’s in the room

The CLC isn’t just another leadership committee. It’s part of a new model for how Jewish Greater Washington shows up, listens in, and makes decisions together.

Its members span more than 100 organizations: synagogues, schools, service agencies, and grassroots groups. They come from different generations, professions, political beliefs, and religious identities. Some are longtime Federation partners, others are new to this work.

They were brought together to reflect a broader range of voices. And now, they’re listening—with purpose and intention—not just as individuals, but as a new kind of leadership collective committed to understanding and learning together.

By design, CLC members wear two hats: the “community member” hat, representing their own lived experiences, and the “community leader” hat, bringing in and analyzing the voices of an even wider circle. The goal? To surface critical issues and insights that Federation and other organizations can address in the years ahead.

Listening is harder than it sounds

Most of us think we’re pretty good listeners. We nod, we wait our turn, we make eye contact. But real listening—the kind that helps people feel heard and seen—is a lot trickier than it looks.

And when the topic touches on deeply held values—identity, politics, Israel—it’s even harder to stay open. But that’s exactly when it matters most.

That kind of listening takes more than good intentions. It’s a skill, one that can be practiced, honed, and strengthened over time.

Practicing the hard stuff

That’s what CLC members set out to do this fall by joining workshops with two organizations that specialize in the art of tough conversations: Resetting the Table and For the Sake of Argument.

These weren’t lectures—they were labs.

• Resetting the Table’s Speaking Across Conflict training focused on real tools for navigating charged conversations, especially around Israel and the current political climate in the U.S.
• For the Sake of Argument used a curriculum built on stories designed to provoke disagreement—on issues central to Israel and Jewish life—then helped participants stay curious, reflective, and in relationship.

For many, the most eye-opening lesson wasn’t just how to listen. It was realizing how much difference exists even among people who think they’re aligned.

When it gets real

“One of the most surprising takeaways was how much difference there is even among people who think they’re on the same page,” said one participant. “It reminded me how important it is to keep asking, not assuming.”

Another brought the experience home. At a recent Shabbat dinner, when the conversation got tense, she didn’t change the subject or shut it down. She stayed curious. She listened. And the conversation stayed open.

As Lisa Silver-Kopit put it: “In such a charged moment, it’s a relief to have tools that help us talk and listen with respect. These skills don’t make disagreement go away, but they make it possible to stay in relationship even when we see things differently.”

What’s next and how you can be part of it

Between now and the end of February, the CLC is hosting listening gatherings across Greater Washington.

These aren’t forums or focus groups. They’re small, meaningful conversations about what matters to you. What’s working. What’s missing. What makes you feel connected—or left out. What kind of Jewish community you want to build next.

And the insights shared won’t disappear into a spreadsheet. They’ll directly inform how Federation—and our entire ecosystem of Jewish life—moves forward.

Want in? Interested in joining a listening group or bringing a few people together to host your own? Let us know!

We’re building something new together. A more open, connected, and resilient Jewish Greater Washington. That can’t happen from the top down or from behind a podium.

It starts with listening. And it starts with you.

As Marla Schulman, Chair of the 2025-2026 Inaugural Community Leadership Council put it:

“This campaign is about discovering the community we all want to build together. When we really listen to each other, we learn that we don’t have to agree on everything to care about each other. And we find the common ground to move us forward. That’s where real connection begins.”

Reading the news reminds me of the comic books I read as a kid. They’d start off with large headlines announcing the latest victories of the world’s villains, each update more concerning than the last. Then, when things were at their bleakest, the superheroes would show up and answer the call of a world in distress. Which is to say I’m accustomed to looking around for heroes when times get tough.

This year, I found the heroes I was searching for in all of you. Harnessing the twin forces of empathy and resolve, community members across Greater Washington stepped up to be there for people in need in a year of overwhelming uncertainty. Thanks to your support, Federation was able to expand and strengthen a network of care across D.C., Maryland, and Northern Virginia and infuse resources where they were needed most.

Our partners at JSSA, Yad Yehuda, and Hebrew Free Loan Association of Greater Washington, among others, responded to serial crises with food assistance, interest free loans, mental health resources, and other emergency support. Our area rabbis joined together to distribute grants made available by Federation to those who could use a helping hand. And Jewish organizations of all sizes set aside funds to make Jewish experiences, including Jewish day school and Jewish summer camp, more accessible to more people.

Meanwhile, Makom, JCADA, and JCA, and Tzedek DC, and others continued the quiet, sacred work of caring for the elderly in our community, advocating and providing services for those living with disabilities, responding to reports of abuse and domestic violence, and helping families get back on their feet after periods of struggle. This work was made possible by your partnership.

That’s why even as we close out a year that often felt challenging, I’m encouraged, hopeful even, about what lies ahead. The world does not lack for destructive forces. But there are even more heroes in our midst who meet suffering with love and generosity and do what they can to ensure our community’s human service offerings remain strong.

If this work moves you, I invite you to keep responding and give to Federation’s Annual Campaign. The Annual Campaign is the most essential source of funding for Federation’s work across our region, enabling us to support vital services people rely on every day and all the more so in times of crisis.

The impact of federal layoffs, the government shutdown, and the ongoing affordability crisis is hitting our area hard. Thousands of members of the Jewish community are struggling with poverty and meeting their basic needs. A gift to Federation ensures we can continue helping people through this moment and access the joy of Jewish life.

As the saying goes, not all heroes wear capes. But what our local champions lack in costume, they more than make up for in heart. The resources we are able to provide through the Annual Campaign reflect our commitment to each other. Thank you for showing up in the name of community. We need you.

Since August, something beautiful has been unfolding across the DMV: more than 120 families have said “yes” to Jewish connection with a PJ Library get together for young families. Some gathered in sukkot under the stars. Others lit Shabbat candles in costume before heading out to trick-or-treat. Still others braided challah, painted pottery, or welcomed old friends and new faces to celebrate a sweet new year.

Each one made Jewish life feel personal, joyful, and shared.

It Doesn’t Have to Be Perfect

No one waited to have the “perfect” house or the “right” Judaica. They just showed up—with apple cake, with s’mores, with grape juice, with laughter. One family, hosting for the first time, built their own sukkah and invited 16 people to fill it. “We’d never done this before,” they said. “But we wanted to create space for others who don’t have the room to build one.”

That’s the kind of ripple effect this program sparks. When one family opens their door, others feel more welcome to do the same.

Little Moments, Big Memories

From Halloween Shabbat to challah-braiding brunches, every event looked a little different. But the feeling was the same: warmth, fun, and connection. A group of moms gathered to paint pottery for Rosh Hashanah. One host filled their table with “everything apple” to celebrate a sweet new year. Another welcomed 31 people across state lines to share in Rosh Hashanah dinner, marveling as kids realized—some for the first time—that everyone in the room was Jewish.

And these memories? They stick. As one parent said, “The party was the best part of the holiday!”

Your Turn to Say Yes

If you’ve been waiting for a sign, let this be it. Light the candles. Bake the kugel. Invite someone new.

These gatherings weren’t fancy. They were real: challah and crafts, backyard sukkahs and break-fast bagels. What made them meaningful wasn’t the setup. It was the people around the table, and the joy of being together.

This kind of connection isn’t limited to holidays or host homes. It’s happening across our community through Federation events, local gatherings, and meaningful moments both big and small. If you’re looking for your next step, the Community Calendar.

And if you’re not yet receiving free Jewish children’s books from PJ Library each month, it’s the perfect time to sign up. Stories are just the beginning.

You don’t need a theme, a guest list, or a perfect table setting. Just start small. When you’re ready, your Jewish community will meet you where you are.

Last month, we stumbled onto something extraordinary: a set of original minutes from the very first meetings of the United Jewish Appeal in Washington. Hand-typed pages from 1948 and 1949 outlining early allocations, emergency support for Israel, and the names of families who stepped up to lead, many of whom are still shaping Jewish life in our region today.

A Time Capsule of Responsibility

Reading these documents feels like opening a time capsule. The issues were different, the world was different, but the heartbeat is the same: people coming together, pooling resources, and taking responsibility for one another.

Urgency, Action, and One Afternoon

One moment stands out. In April 1949, local leaders gathered at the Ambassador Hotel for what the minutes called a “special meeting.” The purpose?

“Obtain permission of the Executive Committee to borrow an additional half million dollars to advance the United Jewish Appeal… with regard to the deplorable condition of the new immigrants entering Israel.”

Half a million dollars, approved in one afternoon—a community stepping in without hesitation. You can almost feel the urgency in the room and the shared understanding that their choices mattered; that lives depended on them getting this right.

When Community Meant Everyone

Another set of minutes from late 1948 details the young community’s first major campaign: 16,163 contributors giving more than $2 million, an astonishing act of collective generosity. Their allocations spanned Israel, local agencies, national advocacy, and emerging Jewish institutions.

And even the follow-up work tells its own story. One line notes the need to “intensify collections” and clean up the outstanding gifts still considered “gettable.” It’s a reminder that closing gaps and meeting the moment has always been part of our work. It’s as true now, at year-end, as it was then.

They debated, they decided, and they built the foundation we’re still standing on today.

A Year-End Reminder of Who We Are

As we approach year-end, this history hits differently. It reminds us that our community has always risen to the moment—not because someone told us to, but because collective responsibility is who we are. We give, we show up, and we build together.

Every gift today continues a legacy of care, courage, and shared purpose.

And now, just as they stepped up then, we’re called to do the same. Two year-end matches are helping every gift go further to strengthen belonging, community life, and security across our region:

• Jewish Life & Belonging (including Northern Virginia): Every dollar is matched 1:1 up to $750,000, supporting community-building, engagement, and especially the fast-growing needs in Northern Virginia.
• Community Security: Every gift is matched at 50 cents on the dollar up to $1 million, helping protect our synagogues, schools, and gathering spaces with training, assessments, and critical security investments.
• Together, these two opportunities can unlock nearly $1.5 million in additional support for Jewish Greater Washington, amplifying our shared legacy of responsibility and care.

Make a gift today to support belonging, security, and our nearly 100 years of communal investment.

More and more young adults aren’t waiting to be asked in. They’re showing up with questions, ideas, and a real desire to help shape a vibrant, inclusive Jewish future.

We’re also seeing this nationally: the latest Slingshot survey shows that Jewish young adults crave agency, community, and meaningful ways to live their Jewish values out loud.

That’s what NEXUS offers—a chance to explore identity, giving, and belonging in a way that’s personal, real, and rooted in what matters most.

More Than Belonging

If you’re in your 20s or 30s, you probably know the feeling: you care about Jewish life and want to live your values with intention, but it’s not always clear how to turn that into real impact. Where do you begin? What does it look like to shape the community when you’re still figuring out your own path?

That’s the space NEXUS fills. It offers a framework to explore personal values, community connection, and what meaningful participation looks like today.

Seeing the Bigger Picture

What makes NEXUS different is how it connects you to the full landscape of Jewish Greater Washington. At the center of that landscape is the work we do together through Federation to strengthen partnerships, power collective giving, and respond quickly when our community needs support.

When you plug into that ecosystem through NEXUS, your impact doesn’t stay in one corner. It ripples out.

NEXUS is the moment when people begin to see that bigger picture and understand the role they can play in it.

Where It Starts to Feel Real

One moment from a past cohort still stands out to me. Someone said, “I’m not sure I’m the kind of person who leads in the Jewish community.” Before I could respond, another person said, “You already do. You just needed a space to see it.”

That’s NEXUS in a single sentence.

This program creates space for meaningful conversations—about identity, belonging, philanthropy, and community responsibility—and gives participants tools to navigate them with empathy and authenticity. Not because we hand out answers, but because we build the conditions where people can explore them together.

Learning That Feels Real and Human

Throughout the experience, participants hear from people whose work embodies inclusive, values-driven impact. They see how belonging, purpose, and impact show up in real life—from organizations building accessible workplaces to those creating pathways for Jewish connection across the region.

It’s learning that feels grounded, practical, and genuinely connected to the needs of our community.

A Cohort That Becomes Community

Every NEXUS cohort becomes its own small ecosystem of support. People show up as individuals and quickly become a group that listens, challenges, questions, and encourages one another. Real friendships form. Real conversations happen. Real growth takes place.

By the end, participants don’t walk away with a formal roadmap. They walk away with something more lasting: a clearer sense of who they are, a better understanding of what they value, and a deeper confidence in the role they can play in shaping Jewish Greater Washington.

Stepping In—Together

NEXUS is one powerful doorway into that journey of connection and meaning—but across Next Gen, there are so many ways to step in, show up, and shape what comes next.