Solidarity and Support in the Wake of Tragedy

On May 21, two beloved members of our community—Sarah Milgrim z”l and Yaron Lichinsky z”l—were murdered in an antisemitic shooting outside the Capital Jewish Museum.

They were peacebuilders. Partners. Dreamers. Their loss is profound and deeply personal.

In this moment of heartbreak, we come together—to grieve, to support one another, and to honor the values Sarah and Yaron lived by.

This page is a space for healing, reflection, and resilience. Here, you’ll find messages of solidarity from across our community, tools to help you talk about antisemitism, and resources for mental health and safety. Whether you are grieving, angry, afraid, or searching for meaning—you are not alone.

We grieve together. We stand together. And together, we move forward—with strength, compassion, and resolve.

Messages of Solidarity and Reflection

In the wake of tragedy, messages of support can offer comfort and connection.

Elected officials, faith leaders, and community members have reached out to share their heartbreak, outrage, and solidarity. These messages remind us that we are not alone—and that the values Sarah Milgrim z”l and Yaron Lischinsky z”l lived by continue to resonate far beyond our Jewish community.

Below is a selection of messages we’ve received. If you’d like to share your own reflection or a message you’ve seen, please email us at info@shalomdc.org.

Please note: While we may not be able to post every submission, we deeply appreciate all who take the time to share. Any personally identifying information will be kept confidential unless explicit permission is given.

Mental Health & Emotional Well-Being

In times of crisis, emotional and psychological care is essential. Below are options for counseling, financial assistance, peer support, and more—available to you and those you love.

Don’t know where to start? Call 703-JCARING to reach J-Caring, our community helpline. You’ll be connected to personalized support—whether you need counseling, financial assistance, or other services.

Looking for therapy or grief counseling? Jewish Social Service Agency (JSSA) offers professional mental health care for individuals, families, and children, with clinicians sensitive to Jewish community needs.

Understanding and Confronting Antisemitism

Whether you’re trying to explain antisemitism to your children, facing it on campus, or looking to better understand how to respond—these trusted partners offer meaningful guidance, education, and tools for action.

For parents and caregivers navigating difficult conversations at home, PJ Library offers age-appropriate guides on how to talk to children about antisemitism and scary situations. These resources are simple, sensitive, and rooted in Jewish values:

How to Talk to Children About Antisemitism

How to Talk to Kids About Scary Situations

For educators and families seeking deeper learning, Facing History & Ourselves offers thoughtful materials on recognizing and responding to antisemitism in all its forms, including online hate. Explore resources

For students encountering antisemitism on campus, Hillel International provides tools, peer support, and workshops to help Jewish students feel safe and empowered. Learn more

Ready to take action? The Anti-Defamation League (ADL) offers a wide range of tools—from policy advocacy to education and response support. Get started

Need to report an antisemitic incident? You can submit a report directly through Federation’s JShield security team. Your report will be handled with care and shared with law enforcement and trusted partners—including ADL, Secure Community Network, Community Security Service, and JCRC—to help ensure a swift, coordinated response. Report an incident

Security & Preparedness

Safety is our top priority. Here’s how we’re working to protect our institutions—and how you can stay informed and prepared.

Need help with security planning or training? Federation’s JShield division offers risk assessments, staff and volunteer trainings, and grant application support for Jewish institutions across Greater Washington. Meet JShield

Looking for best practices and recommendations? Download guidelines and recommendations from trusted national partners Jewish Federations of North America, the Anti-Defamation League (ADL), Secure Community Network (SCN), Community Security Service (CSS), and Community Security Initiative (CSI) of New York. Learn more

Stay vigilant. Noticing when something feels “off” is one of the most powerful tools we have. Trust your instincts. If you see something suspicious—a person, package, or behavior—report it to Federation’s JShield team. In case of an immediate threat or ongoing act of violence, always call 911 first. Your awareness helps keep our community safe. Report an incident

Our Voice in the Media

In times like these, it’s vital to amplify voices offering comfort, clarity, and action.

Our CEO, Gil Preuss, has spoken widely about the pain and purpose of this moment. Below are key stories highlighting our community’s response and resolve.

 

Full Interview: CEO of Jewish Federation of Greater Washington speaks after couple killed DC News Now / NewsNation
Reflecting on the victims’ lives, the impact on our community, and the urgent need for healing and security.

Local Jewish leaders express resilience, renewed effort to fight antisemitism after DC attack Yahoo! News
Community voices calling for strength, solidarity, and meaningful action.

We’re hurting really bad today’: Jewish leaders in D.C. ask for support, healing in wake of shooting WAMU
Leaders urging unity and support for those most deeply affected.

DC’s Jewish community reels from Israeli Embassy staffers’ killingsPOLITICO
Insight into the heightened fears and renewed communal purpose in response to the tragedy.

A Nightmare That We’ve All Been Afraid Of The New York Times
The emotional toll of the shooting and the path forward for Jewish life in DC.